Not sure who the other poster is (boy I hope it isn't me), but I think you are making great strides. You don't strike me as the martyr type at all. Love the top 10 btw. I think if you see some of yourself in this other person, and you realize that you don't want to be that way then you have grown. You are seeing things that need to change rather than ignoring those issues. That is a great thing!
