TPAschal, I'm in a similar timeframe as you, and I always read those with similar timeframes with some interest.
I find it interesting that they don't file, or file and then don't act. For my H, that would be typical of his approach to life: be passive and complain when things don't magically happen for you.
I may do the ultimate 180 and file myself. After all, I could sit on it, too. =)
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D