Hey Lodo and all, I feel so connected to all these posts. My H is being so cold too. He dropped the ILYBNILWY bomb on me in Feb 08, he said the OW is how he knew this for sure. But of course doesn't want to move out or lose his kids. So I'm supposed to just co-habitate. Some days just feel like the deep depths of h3ll. I want to work it out but he says he has not one ounce of feeling for me after 19 yrs. He wants the best for me & the kids BTW he thinks this will not affect them. So I feel your pain. Hang in there and congrats on your new place. I hope to move on someday, does that truly happen....


Me 46/H 48
M 19/T 20
S 16 D 9
Bomb 2/9/08
OW 2/29/08
Ended A 3/12/08 (LIAR)

Found proof 4/11/08
Piecing ? 8/24/08

"When the rain washes you clean... you'll know"