"unusually dedicated"- is that code for "stupid"? lol

I feel like I am stuck in the Friends episode where Ross and Rachel were 'on a break' and he had sex with someone. Obviously my H thinks of himself as "single" (hence the comment about liking being single). We don't live in the same house. He was saying he wanted a divorce.....can I *really* say he "cheated"?

Sure, he did technically cheat since we are still legally married, but did he really?

And now that I am starting to "win him over", do I undo the tentative progress by getting all up in his grill over this?

And, I did get the left handed compliment that even though they were half my age and had perfect bodies, it didn't do anything for him. I am quite sure that he told me that truly as a compliment. What a dipstick.

Yeah, I better go change my signature. *sigh*

I just don't know what to think; I can go either way on this.


Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing