I don't know if you need to bring it up to talk further about.

You took what she said the wrong way (ie, as a decision for a direction and not 'just' a feeling).

If you want to discuss more about your personal journeys, fine. But rehashing that you thought she meant divorce when all she meant was that she was feeling negative seems like it could bring more weight to the conversation/her feelings than necessary--it was a misunderstanding. period....if she brings it up, obviously discuss further, if not- move on. Just have fun.

Like I said in my other post to you, at any given moment, we all have negative feelings about our relationships. We all question what we should do and think about throwing in the towel. It doesn't mean that is what we actually PLAN to do. *Feelings* come and go.

Keep up a good PMA and move forward. \:\)


Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing