W has always been a pushy person, that allowed me to let her do all the decisions and run our lives... but now she still wants to while she abandons our life! I think your H will realize it, he is going from a real and caring person to, what I imagine is, an unstable person who is also incapable of sustaining a real marriage...
Read an article about a woman who divorced her husband 18 years previously, found out she was dying, contacted him and he immediately came to her, no mention of their vicious divorce etc. She said it made her regret not reaching out all those years... So, no matter what is said and done now, some day everyone looks back and realizes that things were never as bad as they seemed...
No, I was on Luvox, panic attacks, phobias and OCD *8O I stayed on the lowest dose and it seemed to get me over the trauma of the death of my marriage (up to present, more to come with the divorce) but now I want to know if its me or not. Yeah, I know its better to be less jumpy and obsessive but that is part of who I am, I used to be that person, less jumpy, more obsessive, less phobias and more outgoing... have to find a balance of those some day.
And the games, I have an excuse! I have two boys who love games (my bad influence from an early age I admit) so I can treat them at the same time as myself! Used my new headset today, really great to be able to use voice comms!
Yes, new clothes, new look, get your hair cut in a new style, something just to be different, so that people stop and notice for a change *8) Is it wrong for me to be looking forward to visiting my sister in SC because she has a hot friend (who sadly is in the process of getting divorced by her WAH, two teenage kids) who I'd like to see again?? Going to have to ponder that answer myself. Not that anything could or would happen, she is a kind, beautiful, helpful & church going lady, can't see how anyone could just up and say "I want a divorce" no warning to her.
I'm looking forward to the boys waking up, they are going to storm my room and bounce on my bed in a few hours so they can give me my presents *8) The storming of the room is becoming a fairly routine weekend activity, along with me cooking them a bacon, scrambled eggs and toast breakfast *8) Will catch up with your thread again tomorrow, but its getting close to 2am and I need to sleep so I'm not grumpy later!
Hope you have a great weekend!
Brad
Me: 35 W: 34 S8 & S5 M: 11 IDLY: 08/2007
"Freedom's just another word for nothing left to lose" - Janis Joplin, Me and Bobby McGee
"Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, it is about dancing in the rain!"
