Hands down it is an affair. When my H ended his EA for a short time he was mopey(withdrawal). He did trial run seperation(every other weekend he stayed with a friend and I now see it for what it was) and then boom he was gone. Started back up with OW who had gotten a divorce and since he wasn't home, they decided it was fine to start a PA. Funny how they convince themselves that it is OK because they create a situation where some people may construe(sp?) it to be ok. That's my opinion and I'm sticking to it. Married is married. kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
