This has to be a very tough day for you to hear this from your H. Just look on the bright side, he is opening up and he may let you know why he strayed. If the two of you reconcile, you both are going to have some trust issues to work out. That is what is going on in my mind if my W comes back. How will I gain trust for her so that I know she wont cheat again?

It is indeed drama to the max.