The week is almost over and H has above and beyond taken his responsibilities with the kids very seriously. He was on time, even early and did fun things with them when he had them. Even sent me a text when he was driving to his dad's last night "I had a lot of fun with them tonight.". Phew!
He tried to have sex yesterday out of the blue! Very odd, I figured he wasn't attracted to me anymore. I shrugged him off with mumblings of "Not the right time, not when you are seeing other people, confusing to us". He wasn't mad I turned him down (no way, no how will there be ML between us at the moment), I am just shocked it happened.
I avoided R talk once again the other night. We got on the subject of his birthday this weekend and his party that he is having. He said "Does it upset you?" (meaning the party), and I said "Am I upset that you are turning 36? No, I think its hilarious", and changed the subject. He knew to not push it.
This weekend will be hard, to not be with H on his birthday. We are having a family party for him on Sunday night. The girls are very excited.
D3 is very sick this week, with chest cold/asthma. Her oxygen levels were low at the doctor's today. We have one day to do steroids and treatments, then if she isn't better tomorrow, she'll head to the hospital. She is in good spirits for the most part, but bless her heart. H has been very loving towards her. These are good things, all I have wanted.
lwb, sorry to hear about your D3!!! I hope she gets better so she doesn't have to go to the hospital! Keep us posted if you get a chance! And I am glad to hear that your H is acting like he is and being responsible & loving toward the kids it sounds like!!! Karen
Give D3 lots of TLC and XXXOOO's. I know you will. She's in my prayers.
Just for fun ... think about this ... showing up at your H's b-day party dressed like a hot momma, in a little black dress, red lipstick, etc. Wouldn't that cause a stir (for him and any other woman friend he has there that night)!
But I think the family planned party at home sounds perfect.
I think H is afraid I *am* going to show up. No worries there, I haven't been back to this bar since I found out OW and H spent all their time there. Never. But yes! I would love that.
Hope D3 is feeling better so that she doesn't have to go to the hospital. also glad that H did step up to the plate to be more responsible. babysteps maybe.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
I hope she doesn't end up in the hospital.. I know what you mean about the asthma.. S5 has it too, it makes everything much worse when their sick and have that.
Glad to see H growing up a bit. Less pressure on you... Love the idea of you showing up... its great in theory.. He would sh$$ his pants if you did!!
Enjoy your wkend!
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
He tried to have sex yesterday out of the blue! Very odd, I figured he wasn't attracted to me anymore.
My stbxh still does this.. talk about odd. In your sitch, I wonder if it's just some weird territorial thing or maybe it's your H's way of letting you know that he still might be interested in staying in the M... letting you know he's still interested and not completely closing the door.
I hope your daughter did better today, or if you did end up at the hospital, that you have good results from the care they give her there. My daughter had her wrist surgery today, and it went very well. The surgery was much shorter than anticipated because thing went very well. It took hours to her to regain normal functioning after the anesthesia, they gave her a nerve block which is a the latest and best anesthesia for the type of surgery she had. She was so funny in recovery, although some of the nurses seemed worried by how long it took her to regain motor control. But she's functioning now. Since my daughter is studying neuroscience for her PhD she was fascinated by the changes in her body and perception.
I thought of you today and wondered if you were spending your day be a hospital bed too. Hope all is going well.
I hope she gets better so she doesn't have to go to the hospital! Keep us posted if you get a chance! And I am glad to hear that your H is acting like he is and being responsible & loving toward the kids it sounds like!!! 
Karen
