I hear you loud and clear, actually very recently this hit home for me.

I can't compare myself physically, to a 2o something year old "tight" body.


I would lose. I know it.

I felt the pang of it.

I realize tho, that is not something I want to "compete" with.

I mean. A tight body can only get you so far, and um they were born in the 8o's Fod Gods sake, what do they have in common?

Do they have something in common that lasts?

No sweetie they don't.

You have love, and wisdom, and yes sexyness.

YOu are compassionate, and caring.

You are a wonderful mom

I think the latter means more honestly. If the man you are with, does not see that.

Then he is the one with the problem, sweetie not you.


Live Simply
Love Generously
Care Deeply
Speak Kindly
Leave the rest to God