Just give her space. She's sending mixed signals, talking about leaving for good but then backpeddling to separation.

Tell her that you do think counseling would help her but that you're not going to push anything, that your concern was for her and nothing else. Say you'd like to continue to do fun things together and just see where things go, that you're her friend.

And continue to detach, back off and just see where things go. Of course, DB like he|| as you do it!


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.