I have not read sex-starved marriage, but I have read a lot of other marriage and relationship books.
What does she want me to change? My desire for sex. She tells me that it is un-natural to want sex as much as I do, and that her drive is perfectly normal. I would not even classify myself as a high drive person however and I do not consider sex 3 or 4 times a year enough.
What have I tried to change? In my mind just about everything. We don't have sex, we don't touch, we don't hug...we don't do anything physical at all. I have been dealing with these things for 3 years now and I am not sure I can deal with it anymore. I feel that I give and give and give and she just takes and takes and takes...