W emailed me about an hour ago.

She did not have a good reaction to my email last night. Asking her to seek counseling before making a life changing decision.

She said "Did I miss something or are you having some bizarre conversation in your head? Are you talking about divorce? I am on the page of separation, which I thought you were OK with, since we are both on our journeys."

I replied that last night I asked her if she thought there was no chance for us...she said she was feeling that way...I took that to mean she was moving on. So I apologized for taking it wrong, and that we could talk about it more tonight.

I need to do some damage control. Any suggestions??