Bring on the Rain

[Rob1231]

You know, since I've decided that there are certain things that I don't want to live with any more, I'm actually scared of H actually coming back and wanting his family. To some, especially new people, that may sound horrible. I guess I've gotten to the point where I'm ready to be done. My eyes are open to the cycle I've been living in for years. At this point, I don't see H wanting any of coming back to me. However, he's the type of person that would try to hold on to anything that would help him keep his head above water just long enough to find a new way out.

Sue, if he decides he wants to come back, that is NOT the end of the discussion, it is just the beginning. There are two people in this M, and if the M does continue, that needs to be on the condition that BOTH of them are committed, happy, and having their needs fulfilled.

I will call H and tell him I will be leaving work early and heading to my parents. Done!

Good answer!