I see.... yes, I agree with you. I think it's good that you try to stay in that house for now. It will show stability. I know you are young and are tempted to date, but if I were you I'd wait until this was all over before getting involved with anyone. Although it's a no-fault state, you really will look better in court if you are out dating or putting a lot of focus on your love life (showing that all your efforts and thoughts are with your child... that would look good!). There's plenty of time and opportunity later. Also, I think it's best to heal first so you don't have baggage for the next relationship. Give it the time and growth so it will be a healthier one. Gosh, I sound like some annoying big sister or something! Sheesh!!!
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
