Affair is over and WW is responding

[Hope4us]

Her dad passed away quite a few years ago (they weren't close). She is very close to her mom, but I haven't said anything to her yet.

MIL really likes me because I'm the only stable person any of her kids have married. I'm still trying to decide whether or not to tell her.

I'm sure an attny told her not to leave the home or her kids. So, we'll see how she reacts when her kids KNOW what she's doing.

I just TM'd with OMW. OM is claiming WW and GF's TM's were twisted and they weren't planning on getting together last weekend. I asked her how a TM from GF to WW that said "what was his excuse for not coming up yesterday" and WW's reply that "she (OMW) has an appt with an attny this week and he doesn't want to add fuel to the fire" and GF's reply "understandable, but frustrating" could be somehow twisted into something other than them planning on getting together and him not coming?

The LIES are just stunning.

I really thought about responding to her email with "You are commiting adultery and agree you want to separate and you expect ME to move?"

But I won't. I don't want to get into any kind of conversation with her tonight because I don't want to tip my hand with what I'm going to do.

It is just really amazing what an affair can do to a person. Turn them into someone that you don't even know. Outside of the anger that I feel, I really just feel sad that the person that I've spent 23 wonderful years with (except the last year) has turned into a selfish bit*h who cares nothing about her kids, her husband, her self respect, nothing. I just want to cry.