lwb, I'm sorry to hear about your D. My kids have all been sick too and it gets draining. I'm glad your H is stepping it up with them.

Me BS 30
Him WH 32
Kids 9, 4 and 2
Together 12 years
DDAY#1 9/30/05 False reconciliation
DDAY #2 3/13/08 blindsided

Separating and heartbroken