18 months, but who's counting?

[peacetoday]

SH
I have wondered why some of these guys file while others dont and dont want to discuss it like it isnt the solution to the problem
I agree with UD--They only seem to live in a delusional reality
and they tell others they are done, M is over, been over for years ect
and maybe they belive it
but they
just dont want to make any permanent decisions yet

I see all of this in my h
who never brings up the D word and has avoided any discussion about it, but also has told every friend we both know -it is over, and freinds have told me to move on after speaking to him
so I dont know
maybe it is financial or another form of avoidance
maybe both
something stops them
I dont see my H having a firm grasp on reality and teenagers can make adult decisions
peace