Don't want her to avoid it though, that wouldn't be good either. I'm told to face it so we all should. Take care though Jack. Just hijacked to say a big thank you and bye.
Sides, if I can get her to smile even a little I have pushed back the darkness.
This thread is different than that of the previous poster in that over here we aren't all like those monkeys in the barrel that link their arms together trying to help that one last monkey out. That monkey that never reaches up.
And dar, if you had half a clue what you're talking about, what I've done and what amount of sh*t I've already kicked to the curb in my own mission to understand MYself, and make changes, I might respect your snarky words. But be that as it may...
Same to you Amy... you also don't know half of what I've done to clean out my own personal junk. No need to be so angry. Really. Something to work on maybe?
That's all I ask Jack. Notice the thread is locked? It's supposed to be dead. I'm not half as angry as Amy is and I don't see why she should be that angry with me. I've emailed her already today and she could respond to that instead of here.
Jack..amyc..fig....and dar....funny how the Japanese come up with some powerful analogies. Yeah..even the monkey falls....
Recall that my W always said to me that "I knew you'd be adversarial"....and...."this reeks from your parents and family; their fingerprints are all over this."
Nah.
I filed. Me. Myself. Just me. No one else. Those statements were her projecting. Hey...why was she always accusing me of seeing someone? Because.......(see above)
Three was too much. I chose this. I said to myself, I can't live at home and not know if my W was..hmmm...let's just say in French "faire un pompier".
Can't live without trust. Can't live without knowing that your W expresses great pain and remorse about mistreating her H.
In prison, you don't get parole withour showing remorse.
I tried. Life is about risk and change. I risked...I stayed...I set a standard for myself. Lines were crossed over and over. There comes a time.....
Instead of this being a fair 'fight', it is clear that either, as Jack says, it's all about $$$$$...or...simply 'we'll finally screw FIB for asking for full custody."
Jack...imagine....my W was trying to spoon me only a few weeks ago. To think...................
FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
