Hi Karen,

I agree, my H should have talked to me about his concerns. His excuse is he was worried him talking to me would spur on my (PAST and CONTROLLED) depression. Well, that's a chance he should have taken. Nothing I can do to change what is. I can only change me.

I already feel much stronger and more confident than I did a few months ago. I have lots of goals for myself, too (no hope-setting though!).

Thanks for your support, Karen. I'll be thinking of you and checking in with your sitch. Stay strong and keep doing what you're doing.


M: 37
H: 36
Married: Aug 13, 2004
Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008
Reconciled: September 2008
Current: Ambivalence