Hi sh- Of course your H is going to tell everyone that he thinks a D is the way to go...he would look like more of a sap then he already does if he didn't. If he said he didn't know what he wanted, then most people would suggest trying to work on the M...and if he were to work on the M then he would have to be responsible and come back to reality. I think your H avoiding lunch with you is interesting. If he really wanted the D, wouldn't you think he would be eager to get it started...unless less there is some other reason (like financial) to avoid it.
Good luck with your talk tomorrow. Let us know how it goes.
