Jen, we all have a bit of the other poster in us. Some just see it sooner than others. I was a martyr too. Then we realize the only real power we have is in changing ourselves. One change begets another and has a ripple affect that can change other things. That's the power of changing self.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09
