H had dinner with mutual friend from HS a few weeks ago. Told friend that he thinks D is the best thing for both of us. Friend thinks H is enjoying being single, having no responsibilities. I wish someone would ask him why he doesn't file if he really believes it's over.
I need to talk to H about financial stuff. I messaged him the other day to see if he wanted to go to lunch. He said it was a bad week for him and that next week is better. Still avoiding me. My guess is he thinks I want to talk about D again. I didn't say anything about needing to speak to him about anything- only asked if he wanted to have lunch.
Other than being nicer, I don't see any progress in H. I still feel like I need to move forward with D soon.
As a last ditch effort, I'm going to try to create those warmy fuzzy feelings when I'm around H. We had reached a point a few weekends ago where we were talking comfortably, then I went and got all pissy again because I was stressed out, which put us back 2 steps. Not that I see it as making any difference at all.
Tomorrow's my chance. I'll also try to talk to him about financial issues since it really can't wait until next week (and because I don't think his idea of next week will ever come).
