Thanks Jack! I find that she is a martyr and I know a martyr will never see it on her own. I didn't until recently and my Mom never has and never will. A cycle for sure.
I wasn't trying to tone Amy down I was trying to let her know that Amy also helped open my eyes. Any is a tough one but she shows she cares by her honesty.
I learnt the hard way that you can only help someone if the want to be helped.
Jen
Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*