A far cry from the other poster Jen, but a good thing to be worried about. Your list of 10 was amazing, I wanted to say thank you for that, but here not on the other thread.
You also do not need to tone down Amy C on that thread or try to soften her blows. If Amy gets that far, it is deserved. If a poster cannot handle Amy C's opinion, they should re-evalute if they have the ability to withstand their spouse or have the steel to make thier marriage work.
All types of fire can be used to reforge and redefine yourself. As long as your strong, be the iron not the slag.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
