He was very, very rude to me. I tried to push things and make him make the decision. He just said, you do whatever you want and I'll take care of it. So, if I go get her, he'll tell me that he wanted her to say another week. If I leave her, he'll b*tch at me for being charged for another week that she's not there. I CANNOT win with him. I asked why he was angry. He said, do I sound angry? Yes, you do. Again, he just repeated himself....Whatever, do what you want and I'll take care of it. So, something happened or something isn't going quite his way and again, he's taking it out on me.
Sue, since you've realized you can't win with your H, I think you should just do what's best for you and D4. I don't think you should let your H be very, very rude to you or yell at you and those kind of behaviors. Tell him you won't discuss until he is calmer & you don't/will not allow him to treat you disrespectfully. I know it's easy for me to say, but I have let my H get away with that for several years now, and I have decided I won't anymore!!! Karen
Karen
