I was just looking at a sitch/thrad that I've been following. I just realised that if I don't make the changes necessary for ME and work out the issues I have then I'm never going to be completely happy. I've seen how everyone on that thread is getting fed up with that poster and I know that I'm a lot like her. Thanks to her thread I know what I need to do. (If by some chance you know who I'm talking about please don't think this bad mouthing her.)
It's sad that we sometimes have to learn from others mistakes and not our own. But the main idea is that we do learn.
I'm not setting any big goals for my R right now because as Amy said a while back I need to change FIRST before my R can.
Thanks everyone!
Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
