25..mako....you have to look at both of these and understand how they originate. True change, according to my IC, doesn't occur without hardwork, IC and a true desire to want the change. I can see your points about using these comments as blanket statements, however, there is 'truth' behind them. Eg, statistically, it is true that once a person is infidelitous, chances ARE higher that it will occur again within the same R.
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60% of second marriages fail.
If WE remarry, will OURS fail? Did we REALLY change forever and for the better? WILL WE be able to stop that well described 'insidious' return of old habits? Or..do we look positively at that number? Is it our WAW's who are in the 60% and the 40% winners are US? The LBS'ers who DID make the changes?
Time will out. FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
