Question for the Group

[soul_mate]

I am courious if situation would be considred an affair and if anyone else has had it happen in this way.

W and I Separated no OM was in the picture and I am sure of this. A couple weeks after the separation she tells me she is going to see others. A month after this she meets OM. Her and OM have been carrying on a long distance R for the past 6 months. She has made no steps toward a D.

I have all of the feelings like everyone in this group, but I also hold a little respect for my W for separting before meeting OM. Now she admits to seeing others, but is not completely honest since she denies how serious she is about OM.

Anyway just curious what everyone thinks about this.