Does a WAW typically continue a quality sex life at home while pursueing a EA or PA? I know my WAW is having EA's but I don't think there are any PA's. Our intimacy has always been good and I have been putting forth utmost effort in this area for the past several months and I am convinced it is part of what is keeping her here. I get concerned when it has been too many days between intimate moments(more than 3 days) that she may have gone to a PA. Is this an accurate barometer of her extracirricular activities or not? We need a lot of input here to get a large enough sample to make a conclusion. I feel this is important because the WAS always lies about this behavior and it is such a breech of respect and health for us.