Confused as Ever

[Snow White]

There is one more thing that I have considered. And that is that the reason there are no phone calls to her cell(or her home) is driven by the OW not H. They day that I visited her at her place of work was the last day there is a call to her cell.

When this started OW played the role of the victim, she was in an abusive relationship was not allowed out of the house, could speak on the phone in whispers in one an 2 minute intervals when the boyfriend wasn't close by. H played the role of her savior, gave her advice on leaving, helped her find a house, helped her get the manager's job that he deserved(had "pity" sex with her when her boyfriend claimed impotence due to her appearance-her words not mine), drove her to work so that she could stay away from a co-worker that was stalking her.

Now OW has her own place, she is a store manager, the stalking other employee helped her move and she #1 exposed the A to her regional manager so H would not get transferred to her store as originally planned and #2 sold him up the river last week exposing that his manager(in the store she previously worked) was stealing and that he had a file on it. She composed this file and had it for months when she worked there but did not want to tell anyone in case the mannager didn't get fired and it came back on her, didn't seem to worry if it came back on H, didn't even warn him.

Maybe she is thinking he isn't worth the bother if his crazy wife keeps showing up. My sister in law felt the need to go peek in the windows of the store at her too, that was the effect of that exposure!