I know that you and others on here care, why do you think I post everyday? And I don't need to be told I am right the dialogue from both sides makes me think. Both yourself and GF have been successful using different approaches. Although she too is pro exposure. Is it possible by reading the description about my H's family that while the threat of them knowing is something he worries about once they actually know it is not likely to help?
I have told his older brother and sister in law, I have told my mother.
Our posts overlapped this morning, my post was not a rebuttal, I was typing when your post came up.
You didn't answer my last question, which is do you trust your wife now, or is it a constant struggle?
Karen - NoCode
Trusting too much was never my problem. I have always been a worrier. I read The Secret the other day because I thought it would be uplifting, in fact I had to stop half way through because if I believe it I basically made this happen by worrying about it for so long.
My only other relationship 16-19 years old(if that is really a relationship) my boyfriend left me for another girl. (of course wanted me back when after 3 months I finally stated to GAL), my mother at midlife had depression and cheated on my father. Where I work adultery is rampant, it is just something I always worried about, likely why I was controlling ect.,
GF I love you girl, thanks for the support even when you knew it might come with some backlash.
Me~34 H~38 D6.5
EA/PA-DEC.07
Moved out~Apr.13,08 Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08 No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009
