Originally Posted By: BradNL
Karen,

I think your H is indeed worried that you aren't completely heartbroken that he is gone... Guess he can't see at all how you aren't the same person anymore, a stronger, more confident and in better shape to boot! Doesn't that tell you enough? If everyone else can see it and he can't, its not a problem with you, its definitely him that is stumbling around in the dark.



Thanks, Brad I think you are right. I think he maybe still sees me (will always see me) as the depressed, low self esteem, dependent person that I was in the past instead of who I am now: happy, good self esteem, independent and stronger. But there is nothing I can do about that; hopefully at some point he will realize that, but if not I feel it will be his loss!!! \:\)

Wow! That is impressive--80 wpm!!! \:o I think I am about 50 or 60 and I took typing class in high school, too (I guess that's been a while though!)

Hope you have a great weekend, too!!! \:\) Karen

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