Yes, most of my friends are married. I have some good friends though. My best friend is an ex but we do a lot of things together (no chance of reconciliation). We're "just friends." I do need some new friends and hopefully, ones who are single. Even better, gay.
I appreciate all your wonderful help. This is so frustrating to love someone with all your heart and they don't feel the same.
If I "knew" she wasn't coming back to me, I guess I would go ahead and find someone else to date (so difficult to do). Like my shrink says, "find a replacement" and thoughts of her will fade. I hope he's right and I hope I can find someone.