You guys...amyc...could you post a summary of you...YOUR sitch to me. Now that I am winding down, I would like to catch up with some others..perhaps do more reading and support than worrying about myself.

Yes..it's been an amazing journey for me. From crushing blow...to searching for answers...to trying desperately to save my marriage... getting hurt with infidelity..hanging for a final fight..then, finally, letting go of the hurt and saying goodbye to my M. Now....now...it is ME who is to be punished (?I). Twas my W who was unhappy..my W who loved me and 'wanted the romance back'..it was John, Craig and Zack who got a crack at it...now...FIB must be punished for this.

s'OK. I focus on my kids. I try and stay away from her anger..keep to myself...FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;