I am back. I hope you see this message. Please excuse my late response. I give you a lot of credit for your soul searching, GAL'n, reading, and research. In my opinion, you took the initiative to become a stronger person. You did not have a "Why bother?", or "It was all her fault" attitude.
You posed an important question. Like I said, "Trust your instincts". You said:
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We've been together more than 15 years.
You are separated - yet you think of her. You shared a life together. You chose her as your wife. Perhaps past abandonment issues have come into play.
Even if she asked for a separation, it does not mean she wants a D. Your W did not file; neither did you. IMHO, your wanting her is dependent on HER thoughts. Just take a look at this subject header. Instead, focus on YOU, and reasons you love her.
I believe a SBT can help sort this out. Stop analyzing!! DECIDE to love.
