Refuse To Lose, Part VI

[NoDirection]

RTL,
My STBX is also making claims that are incredibly out there abouit me. My father made a good point about all of that, live your life the right way so when people do make false claims about you they know the claims are wrong because of the life you lead.

In my situation, the people she has been talking to do not really know me but that is none of my concern. With what I have seen them do around my son, I do not want to be a part of them.

One thing I learned through all of this, you can only control yourself. Be the rock oyu want to be in an attempt to win her back. If it is not in the cards you are the person you want to be and better off for the next person you may desire to get into a relationship with. Either way YOU are better off.

Focus on your D. That was one thing that helped me get through this time. Once my STBX began to keep him away from me, that was when I knew it was over. There is no way someone who claims to care about the welfare of their child will keep them away from their father. It was her last attmpt to get the freedom she wanted without the guilt of filing for divorce.

Look at the little things in life that are enjoyable. You will see a shift in your priorities and you will begin to focus on things a littel differently as you go through this. Just take it one day at a time...