If our H's are twins then maybe we are too?? Ok I don't have red hair but that is just a salon trip away from being solved
I too am just plain TIRED. I am TIRED of "waiting" for H. I know we are all supposed to be moving forward with life and if our spouses want to catch up, they will.....but I know that emotionally I am still "waiting". There are decisions to make, things to plan that would be different depending on whether or not H and I stay married. I want to feel LOVE! I want to feel WANTED! I want to know that I make his day when I call and vice versa....
Not trying to hijack your thread at all, just saying I am so there on what you are saying. And like you, I honestly don't know if H is capable of giving me that kind of love anymore...
