Many Thanks JM, that makes more sense of your reply on the other thread which I have just read first.
I'm glad I ask on here and get this feedback as I certainly think it's avoided me making any further big mistakes (so far)
I'm actually really enjoying the being me again as I haven't been for a while and also been unhappy and although I want my marriage to work, I'd rather I was happy again and the old me than what I had become.
