I feel so winey; I mean my problems compared to yours seem so trivial. We are talking. (NOT R). But that is it. I don't want a step sister. Am I being unreasonable wanting a wife?
I'm not sure I agree on your problems seeming trivial. Not that I want to make you feel worse, but you've been stuck in really the same spot for a long time. I know our situation isn't optimum, but I don't envy you either. Nothing easy about either situation.
Originally Posted By: "Husband"
I was not going to post today.
I told myself I would just do the one post before I left in the morning and then not look again. Ooops. Here I am, posting again. All your fault doc.
Originally Posted By: "Husband"
I just don't know. Some other things I was thinking Is kind of what MO2C did and leave my E-mail open. Leave a "letter" up about my thoughts of leaving... I promised I would not talk R with her until she got a job. I know she needs to keep a PMA if she interviews.
Maybe not such a bad idea, but I personally would leave out the thoughts of leaving part. I dunno, but that might come across as pretty heavy. If you do decide to do something along that line, feel free to have us sanity check it beforehand.
Originally Posted By: "Husband
Ok enough self pity party for today. One other thing that happened on the way to work this morning... I almost hit a deer... I bet that does not happen everyday in NJ
Happy it was just almost. Are you kidding?? Deer in NJ? They're as common as squirrels, and dead deer on the side of the road is a very common site. Never hit one myself, but have come close. Believe it or not, the part of NJ where we live is really quite rural. Trees, farms, wildlife. I actually almost bumped into a bear when I was walking one night.
Originally Posted By: "Husband"
He said no but he really needs to talk to me and wants to meet up Friday for a few drinks. Said he will call me back Friday.
Doc, today is Friday. Have a drink for me tonight. Enjoy yourself.