I guess I did, but didn't see it that way or realize that it was me that stopped it. I felt as though she had been slowly pulling back from the affectionate gestures and when she said she wanted to separate, I made some assumptions.
HFF,
I sometimes wonder if this is true in my sitch also. Not so very good thought have been crossing my mind while I wait for W to get a job. I have been thinking (just thinking) about moving out myself. Talking to friend that is getting divorced about maybe getting a place together. I feel so winey; I mean my problems compared to yours seem so trivial. We are talking. (NOT R). But that is it. I don't want a step sister. Am I being unreasonable wanting a wife? We have been working together with son's homework with a lot more respect for each others talents. (Me the artistic side and her the analytical side). I was not going to post today. I just don't know. Some other things I was thinking Is kind of what MO2C did and leave my E-mail open. Leave a "letter" up about my thoughts of leaving... I promised I would not talk R with her until she got a job. I know she needs to keep a PMA if she interviews. Ok enough self pity party for today. One other thing that happened on the way to work this morning... I almost hit a deer... I bet that does not happen everyday in NJ I called friend last night about going out Friday. (The one getting divorced). He did not sound too good. He asked if he could call me back tomorrow (today). I said "sure what's wrong, you sound really tired?" He said "ya I am tired" Asked if he needed to talk and wanted me to come over tonight? He said no but he really needs to talk to me and wants to meet up Friday for a few drinks. Said he will call me back Friday.
Later
Dr Love
( sorry for using up your thread, I kinda started running of at the fingers)
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
