Well, she didn't say a word to me last night, but boy was she angry. I guess her little plan to use me until she can make her exit to be with OM and the kids not finding out about her affair isn't going like she thought it would.
We really didn't have a lot of alone time that we could have discussed it anyway, but as I was sitting in the basement watching the Buckeyes win the NIT (woohoo!) I really figured out the power in this marriage has shifted to me. I'm no longer afraid of whatever outcome there is. I started thinking about what would I be losing if she left? A lying, deceiving, adulterer! Why was I afraid of losing that? If my real wife wakes up and wants to make our marriage work, great. If the person she is now is how she's going to be in the future, I REALLY don't want to be with her anyway!
Had a really interesting dream last night. Don't have time to explain it right now, but I'll be back in a bit to explain it.
Thanks for the Props! I really appreciate all my FRIENDS here.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.