Please forgive the hijack. Just wanted to say hello to AmyC and my good stubborn friend FrankD.
I don't know much about your sit. to be honest I just did a search to find amy and frank and found this thread.
Whoever you are and whatever you're going through, amy and frank are good people.
Just keep in mind. (take it with a grain of salt since I admit I have not read one word of your sit.) This board is a wonderful resource and a wealth of wisdom, but use it as an ace bandage and not a crutch.