Ready2Change (II) - Detached

[Ready2Change]

I used the 5 why's (only took 3 to get to a place I could answer a question) with the kids to help get feelings out.

I ask: How do you feel. Response 1: Sad
I ask WHY 1: Response 2: Divorce
I ask Why 2: Response 3: Not spend time w Daddy
I answered and give reassurance that we will still spend time together.

This worked good with all three kids. I don't want the kids to bottle up there feelings, I think this worked good. I think they felt better after the reassurance...