Oh and I sent her an email 30 minutes ago...saying the following:
W,
I will ask you to do this, for me and for you....
At this critical point in your journey, please take a breather, and talk to somebody. A counselor, therapist, whatever.....just talk to someone that can help you to understand this. Someone who will listen nonjudgmentally to your feelings, and help you gain some clarity.
What could it possibly hurt?
You already know that the decision you are about to make will change your life forever.
You don't need to reply....please just think about it.
MM
Pin pulled, grenade tossed.....she has been adamant to this point that she does not need any counseling. BS.
