But guess what?? I think my poker face won because he called today and wants to come to a compromise now. I won't go into the whole conversation, but it started about the house and finances and then he asked if I was going to draft a separation agreement with my L. I said no, he was the one who had decided to go to court so he could proceed how he wanted. Then he starts talking about what he wants and how he feels and blah blah blah. At least was talking though and not just being mean guy. It is SO apparent to me now that he was just trying to bully me and I called his bluff. So now he wants to look at maybe coming to an agreement between us on the custody and he mentioned being more flexible this time. I said that was all I wanted. But that if he wants to do it this way he can't get up and walk out every time we don't agree. (kind of like our M). So he said he wants to start it on e-mail, I'm sure he's documenting for his L's sake...fine with me. We do communicate better that way anyway. And as for the house and the financial stuff I told him to back off and stop rushing. That I would tell him what I'm going to do once the papers are done. He's all bent out of shape because of all the work involved with getting old financial records and all that. WTF did he think was going happen? He really thought we could just do this without all that. Dumbass.
Well that's my quick update. There is so much to tell like when he's coming to get all his stuff for his new place and all the other things we need to discuss before D meets OW, but I'm exhausted and have to go to bed! J~
M 35 H 29 M 4 yrs T 9 yrs D 3 S born 10/19/07 Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08 Status - still figuring this out
