Yup- just read the thread that locked up (soothing the skittish spouse) and you're amazing.

I wish I would have thought to do a Dobson letter; now wouldn't be a good time since my H just announced we're dating exclusively, but still....

I live in the greater Seattle area. I don't know if you guys are doing the outlet malls near the Tulalip Casino in Marysville, but if you are, the Casino often has a live band on the weekend. You might want to look into it. The Afrodisiacs/Spazmatics (same band, different music) are great to see/ fun for dancing. Here's their website: http://www.afrospaz.com/index.html

You're doing so awesome!

Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing