Give D3 lots of TLC and XXXOOO's. I know you will. She's in my prayers.
Just for fun ... think about this ... showing up at your H's b-day party dressed like a hot momma, in a little black dress, red lipstick, etc. Wouldn't that cause a stir (for him and any other woman friend he has there that night)!
But I think the family planned party at home sounds perfect.
