Originally Posted By: lwb
Karen, do NOT give up. Your H may be a fool and never come back, but you will be left behind. BUT...you will be more positive, more confident, a better mother, a better life-liver, because of the hurt he caused you. You will 'win'.


Thanks lwb!!! \:\) I won't give up. H was here tonight and is going to spend tomorrow night and all day Sunday with my D8. Hopefully OW will get upset and start being witchy!!! \:\) I wonder if the romance is cooling down a little if H is spending so much time around here, or maybe that is just wishful thinking on my part???

I have continued to be happy, strong, and independent and re: me being happy today, he said I am so happy lately and positive that he thinks it "creepy". I asked him if he wanted me to be heartbroken and he said no, but I think he really wants me to be suffering a little or depressed or something over his leaving!!!Weird! I do know the kids weren't too upset either; I guess our lack of suffering after he moved out bugs him! Karen

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