I think it might be time........

[Mom of 2 Cherubs]

Worrying about everyone elses happiness is what has brought me to this point in the M. Never wanting to hurt anyone's feelings, never wanting to look like th bad guy. Now that it has been so long it's probably worse that i am now voicing how i feel and have felt.

Is there a "right" answer? I think what is right for one may not be right for another. All anyone can do in make a decision and stick with it, otherwise you lose all credibility.

My mom always told me to just be honest about my feelings. Don't drag it out, just say what you feel otherwise you hurt the other person more even though you are trying to protect them. I never believed her, never wanted to take her advice.

i get it now...i feel that i need to make my decision and stick with it. maybe it won't be easy but I need to do it. I hope that one day i am forgiven.